Wednesday, June 23, 2010

Understand your ENTITY!

Observing people(one of my favorite hobbies)..has given me a deep insight into the classic varieties of human nature when it comes to serious relations. After years of observations and counseling my friends, I am now able to identify or rather categorize every lone person(entity), I meet, into one of the following types...

One who means it but can do nothing about it. - Ever heard an entity saying - ' I will love my ... until death does us apart'?? Yes, I'm talking about this variety where the entity is all hearts for the relation but when the time comes to stand up for it, this entity loses the courage to even talk or stand up for the relation. It thinks -'Killing your feelings or the other person's feelings and getting into Silent mode is the best mode of fighting back the world!"
My take- Atleast you should have tried yar...who cares what the result is. It may be as bad..as it is now, but at least you would have the satisfaction that you tried!!

One who doesn't mean anything and it hardly matters whether he/she does anything about it or not.. - Wo..Wo...This entity is all hearts for you and the purrfect definition of all story book romantic character. Everything is pure bliss with them, but Yenna rascala, Mind it! This entity is good and by the time you realize it's full goodness, you have already been used. A purrfect killer whose sole purpose is to hurt.
My take - Use your brain and not your heart everytime. If someone is praising you for no reason (which only you know better), avoid..run..get away fast..very fast!

One who means it and will go to all lengths to make sure.. - A darling entity, a rare creature nowadays. Rarely will you find such entities who are true to the core to themselves and to the one person who means the world to them. I don't say that these are daring enough to elope but yes they will leave no stones unturned to make sure that the one person it love is safe and happy always. Whether this entity is far or near, it will always make it's presence felt by small gestures which makes the person feel special.
My take- Never hate such a person because that even when this entity may or may not be there always, it has wanted the best for you and love you to the core.

One who is confused that they if he/she really means it or not! - This entity has been hurt by one of the first two kinds and will always fail to trust anyone next time, even when the feelings are strong. It will always be confused and keep on spreading this confusion to others. Sadly enough it's only when they get to meet the entity of the third type, will their fears disappear.
My take- Avoid such person too if you are not of the third type because you will only get more hurt in your dealings with them. They will always be confused and will also drag you in their category. Beware!


People have their own reasons to fall into one of these types..and that does not mean they are bad!
I won't say..keep on judging people based of this categorization but yes..You have all the right to save yourself..if you can..
And, If by chance..your entity turns out to be of the third type..the rarest of kinds...never ever let it go!! Hold onto it, tight..very tight.. :)

2 comments:

  1. third category is really hard to find ....

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  2. I know...islie..i have safely put myself in 4th one

    but since ur sayin so..i guess ur the third types :)

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