Tuesday, October 26, 2010

All about feeling 'Special'!

Ya ya..I can see the stretching of your lips into a gentle smile..you are already thinking of people who make you feel that way..make you feel 'Special' by not saying a single word and yet saying it all..in what they do..in how they care..and just by being there. And you can’t seem to thank them less!

So, how do they manage to do it? I mean..sometimes is fine..but always??..
It's not that happens only with you..these people are so miraculous that any person with them will feel special.

Some peculiar traits of such angels in my life and maybe yours too..

They are there to spread happiness around you..by taking care of you in their own small ways..by being selfless yet demanding :)..but still being themselves...

They are never overbearing, yet present when you need them most...Always trying to cheer you up when you are in the worst of your moods.

They know what you have in mind..some kind of telepathy it seems..but will respect your space..Will always be there to give you a patient ear..to sort out your problems..without even letting you know.

They know your faults. Still, they will never criticize you, but will find out a way of telling that to you in an assertive way..in a way that you would want to listen and make efforts to improvise yourself. They will not love you or hate you for your obvious qualities but they will love you for a person you are or you want to be. To say the least, they will be a constant support throughout, totally dependable!

And that's what makes them 'Special' for you too...because it feels good to know that they will stand by you, embrace all your faults…and be there in your struggle with everything else!

Ah..Now I am smiling too.. ;)

Wednesday, October 13, 2010

Passive Acceptance or Resistance?

Typical human tendency..to hold on to things..to try and control life..to try and change its gears..but with "Destiny" playing its own games..all efforts go for a toss. Then what? Should we fight back..Try and change the course of life..again and again..until all the efforts are in vain??!!

I have seen it and can vouch for it..No person is strong enough to alter what has already been written..however hard we may try! Yet..I have also known a dim light..to enlighten the darker side of life.

It's the path of Passive resistance or rather Passive acceptance. It's this what defines the basic truth of life(for me at least) - "Let things happen for us and we don't try and disturb them...else, in the end, what we will get..is only pain! Everything happens for good. We just have to wait and watch..be a mere spectator..rather..be passive. All will fine, if only we hope for the best and just do our due."

I know many would not agree to this..they may be right too. I'm just trying to suggest something here..which has turned out to be the best for me always.. In case it helps you too..then my job is done.. :)

"You can learn and get the best only when you experience all that is due to you -
Courtesy,
Your Faithful Destiny"

"Okie..My dear Destiny..I get your point..Letz just wait and watch..what more you have to offer!"

Tuesday, October 12, 2010

I understand you!

A mere blink of eyes..
A constant gaze which ends with a "Hmm"..
A positive nodding of head..
A tap on your head and a brush on your hair too..
A smile that's so true..
All of these say..I understand you..

Even though you may doubt yourself, your decisions and everything else happening in your life..Still there will always be people..some angels who will trust you.. maybe they do not....but will be there to understand you..to support you..alwayz..
Cheerz to all of them..who have stood by me..and continue doing so..just because I know.. how hard it is to deal with a phycho moron like me!

Bhagwan un sab ka bhi bhala zaroor karega..of this I'm pretty sure.. :)

Wednesday, October 6, 2010

Buggers..****

OK!..I admit...I do loose my temper even after trying my level best...even after applying all my tactics to control it..

You know that the person talking or arguing in front of you is giving you ****shit ..Since you don't want to indulge in any of this or spoil your mood..you stop talking..
Still that person has awesome guts to poke you again and again by telling you that you are wrong and you are damn sure..that the person in front of you is most dumb creature on earth .. is the heights of insanity and obviously has no grounds to prove his/her point...
This person will never admit his/her fault and instead will find something or the other to blame it on..I mean how does such a person manage to hide his/her brilliant level of surprisingly low intelligence quotient...You can always guess it when he/she opens his/her mouth.

Another one of its kind - These people have no knowledge of what your doing and what is expected.. you are giving your best..Still! They will sit on your head and tell you that you are not doing it right..even when you have been an expert at it..When you ask them if they have ever done it before or are they even aware what it is...the answer is "NO"(Bloddy ********) To hell with such bossy people..How can they pass judgments when they don't even know what it is about..??
I am really fed up of such seemingly rare variety of people, whom I have met at some point or the other...and my anger has soared to the peaks..(to mention the least!)

A humble request to all such people - Plz Plz..Plz...
Not accepting your faults will never help you out..It's simply your escapist tendency..Cut it out..Accept that you have loopholes too... There are people who will always love you if you just can admit the wrongs done and not blame others for it..or rather stop giving lame excuses for it.
For the other kind - Get a life...or else there will always be some people who will surely get the superiority complex out of your brains..Then only you will be appreciate others for what they are doing and not taking credit by just bossing around and doing nothing..

Jai Hind! :P