Ya ya..I can see the stretching of your lips into a gentle smile..you are already thinking of people who make you feel that way..make you feel 'Special' by not saying a single word and yet saying it all..in what they do..in how they care..and just by being there. And you can’t seem to thank them less!
So, how do they manage to do it? I mean..sometimes is fine..but always??..
It's not that happens only with you..these people are so miraculous that any person with them will feel special.
Some peculiar traits of such angels in my life and maybe yours too..
They are there to spread happiness around you..by taking care of you in their own small ways..by being selfless yet demanding :)..but still being themselves...
They are never overbearing, yet present when you need them most...Always trying to cheer you up when you are in the worst of your moods.
They know what you have in mind..some kind of telepathy it seems..but will respect your space..Will always be there to give you a patient ear..to sort out your problems..without even letting you know.
They know your faults. Still, they will never criticize you, but will find out a way of telling that to you in an assertive way..in a way that you would want to listen and make efforts to improvise yourself. They will not love you or hate you for your obvious qualities but they will love you for a person you are or you want to be. To say the least, they will be a constant support throughout, totally dependable!
And that's what makes them 'Special' for you too...because it feels good to know that they will stand by you, embrace all your faults…and be there in your struggle with everything else!
Ah..Now I am smiling too.. ;)
Tuesday, October 26, 2010
Wednesday, October 13, 2010
Passive Acceptance or Resistance?
Typical human tendency..to hold on to things..to try and control life..to try and change its gears..but with "Destiny" playing its own games..all efforts go for a toss. Then what? Should we fight back..Try and change the course of life..again and again..until all the efforts are in vain??!!
I have seen it and can vouch for it..No person is strong enough to alter what has already been written..however hard we may try! Yet..I have also known a dim light..to enlighten the darker side of life.
It's the path of Passive resistance or rather Passive acceptance. It's this what defines the basic truth of life(for me at least) - "Let things happen for us and we don't try and disturb them...else, in the end, what we will get..is only pain! Everything happens for good. We just have to wait and watch..be a mere spectator..rather..be passive. All will fine, if only we hope for the best and just do our due."
I know many would not agree to this..they may be right too. I'm just trying to suggest something here..which has turned out to be the best for me always.. In case it helps you too..then my job is done.. :)
"You can learn and get the best only when you experience all that is due to you -
Courtesy,
Your Faithful Destiny"
"Okie..My dear Destiny..I get your point..Letz just wait and watch..what more you have to offer!"
I have seen it and can vouch for it..No person is strong enough to alter what has already been written..however hard we may try! Yet..I have also known a dim light..to enlighten the darker side of life.
It's the path of Passive resistance or rather Passive acceptance. It's this what defines the basic truth of life(for me at least) - "Let things happen for us and we don't try and disturb them...else, in the end, what we will get..is only pain! Everything happens for good. We just have to wait and watch..be a mere spectator..rather..be passive. All will fine, if only we hope for the best and just do our due."
I know many would not agree to this..they may be right too. I'm just trying to suggest something here..which has turned out to be the best for me always.. In case it helps you too..then my job is done.. :)
"You can learn and get the best only when you experience all that is due to you -
Courtesy,
Your Faithful Destiny"
"Okie..My dear Destiny..I get your point..Letz just wait and watch..what more you have to offer!"
Tuesday, October 12, 2010
I understand you!
A mere blink of eyes..
A constant gaze which ends with a "Hmm"..
A positive nodding of head..
A tap on your head and a brush on your hair too..
A smile that's so true..
All of these say..I understand you..
Even though you may doubt yourself, your decisions and everything else happening in your life..Still there will always be people..some angels who will trust you.. maybe they do not....but will be there to understand you..to support you..alwayz..
Cheerz to all of them..who have stood by me..and continue doing so..just because I know.. how hard it is to deal with a phycho moron like me!
Bhagwan un sab ka bhi bhala zaroor karega..of this I'm pretty sure.. :)
A constant gaze which ends with a "Hmm"..
A positive nodding of head..
A tap on your head and a brush on your hair too..
A smile that's so true..
All of these say..I understand you..
Even though you may doubt yourself, your decisions and everything else happening in your life..Still there will always be people..some angels who will trust you.. maybe they do not....but will be there to understand you..to support you..alwayz..
Cheerz to all of them..who have stood by me..and continue doing so..just because I know.. how hard it is to deal with a phycho moron like me!
Bhagwan un sab ka bhi bhala zaroor karega..of this I'm pretty sure.. :)
Wednesday, October 6, 2010
Buggers..****
OK!..I admit...I do loose my temper even after trying my level best...even after applying all my tactics to control it..
You know that the person talking or arguing in front of you is giving you ****shit ..Since you don't want to indulge in any of this or spoil your mood..you stop talking..
Still that person has awesome guts to poke you again and again by telling you that you are wrong and you are damn sure..that the person in front of you is most dumb creature on earth .. is the heights of insanity and obviously has no grounds to prove his/her point...
This person will never admit his/her fault and instead will find something or the other to blame it on..I mean how does such a person manage to hide his/her brilliant level of surprisingly low intelligence quotient...You can always guess it when he/she opens his/her mouth.
Another one of its kind - These people have no knowledge of what your doing and what is expected.. you are giving your best..Still! They will sit on your head and tell you that you are not doing it right..even when you have been an expert at it..When you ask them if they have ever done it before or are they even aware what it is...the answer is "NO"(Bloddy ********) To hell with such bossy people..How can they pass judgments when they don't even know what it is about..??
I am really fed up of such seemingly rare variety of people, whom I have met at some point or the other...and my anger has soared to the peaks..(to mention the least!)
A humble request to all such people - Plz Plz..Plz...
Not accepting your faults will never help you out..It's simply your escapist tendency..Cut it out..Accept that you have loopholes too... There are people who will always love you if you just can admit the wrongs done and not blame others for it..or rather stop giving lame excuses for it.
For the other kind - Get a life...or else there will always be some people who will surely get the superiority complex out of your brains..Then only you will be appreciate others for what they are doing and not taking credit by just bossing around and doing nothing..
Jai Hind! :P
You know that the person talking or arguing in front of you is giving you ****shit ..Since you don't want to indulge in any of this or spoil your mood..you stop talking..
Still that person has awesome guts to poke you again and again by telling you that you are wrong and you are damn sure..that the person in front of you is most dumb creature on earth .. is the heights of insanity and obviously has no grounds to prove his/her point...
This person will never admit his/her fault and instead will find something or the other to blame it on..I mean how does such a person manage to hide his/her brilliant level of surprisingly low intelligence quotient...You can always guess it when he/she opens his/her mouth.
Another one of its kind - These people have no knowledge of what your doing and what is expected.. you are giving your best..Still! They will sit on your head and tell you that you are not doing it right..even when you have been an expert at it..When you ask them if they have ever done it before or are they even aware what it is...the answer is "NO"(Bloddy ********) To hell with such bossy people..How can they pass judgments when they don't even know what it is about..??
I am really fed up of such seemingly rare variety of people, whom I have met at some point or the other...and my anger has soared to the peaks..(to mention the least!)
A humble request to all such people - Plz Plz..Plz...
Not accepting your faults will never help you out..It's simply your escapist tendency..Cut it out..Accept that you have loopholes too... There are people who will always love you if you just can admit the wrongs done and not blame others for it..or rather stop giving lame excuses for it.
For the other kind - Get a life...or else there will always be some people who will surely get the superiority complex out of your brains..Then only you will be appreciate others for what they are doing and not taking credit by just bossing around and doing nothing..
Jai Hind! :P
Thursday, September 30, 2010
Smile all the way through!
When I was a kid, I used to cry when I didn’t want to go to school or when my teacher scolded me for bringing pickle in tiffin as it was not healthy..when a boy in my class broke my first yellow hair band…Pools of tears ran down my face on small small things…That’s when my mom always used to tell me – “Look at the girl out there, she looks so good when she smiles but will she look good if she doesn’t? So if you want to look good, smile always and do not cry over petty things in life. If you are happy then everything will be automatically good.” Hmm..some convincing argument my mom gave and that smile stuck on my face ever since.
My teachers thought – “Why does this girl always smile for no reason” and the verdict was announced within 2 min time – “Nimisha..Please stand up! This girl..she is always upto some mischief.”
..although I never was..It’s just that I had promised myself to maintain the smile even when my thoughts were just the opposite..not so happy..(boring classes) Anyhow my teachers also understood my habit and they got used to my cheery face..
It was also because of this attitude that I now have loads of loving friends.. they used to tell me – “It feels good when we talk to you because be it the worst exam you have had or the worst tensions you have, we have never seen you loose that smile..In fact, you are the rarest of kinds who laughs after knowing that you have screwed you exam badly.” On hearing this..I used to laugh even more showing my irregular teeth as if they were some lucky charm. But yes..it felt good to know that you are there to cheer up people when they need it most…when ..even they are feeling low.. In my hearts I always used to question – “isse bura kya hoga” and yes.. since I was always prepared for the worst “bura hota bhi nahi tha”.
Off late that smile has diminished..and I hate it to the core..
Simple reason – growing up and expecting a lot from life..trying to resist myself from facing the unkown or the worst. Somewhere I have lost that smile and the attitude to fight back the worst by being prepared for it.
Today..I promised myself..
I won’t crib anymore..I won’t let my smile fade with the complexities of life..I will stop expecting from life because everything will happen for best…I will smile all hearts and clear the life’s toughest exam..for sure..
My teachers thought – “Why does this girl always smile for no reason” and the verdict was announced within 2 min time – “Nimisha..Please stand up! This girl..she is always upto some mischief.”
..although I never was..It’s just that I had promised myself to maintain the smile even when my thoughts were just the opposite..not so happy..(boring classes) Anyhow my teachers also understood my habit and they got used to my cheery face..
It was also because of this attitude that I now have loads of loving friends.. they used to tell me – “It feels good when we talk to you because be it the worst exam you have had or the worst tensions you have, we have never seen you loose that smile..In fact, you are the rarest of kinds who laughs after knowing that you have screwed you exam badly.” On hearing this..I used to laugh even more showing my irregular teeth as if they were some lucky charm. But yes..it felt good to know that you are there to cheer up people when they need it most…when ..even they are feeling low.. In my hearts I always used to question – “isse bura kya hoga” and yes.. since I was always prepared for the worst “bura hota bhi nahi tha”.
Off late that smile has diminished..and I hate it to the core..
Simple reason – growing up and expecting a lot from life..trying to resist myself from facing the unkown or the worst. Somewhere I have lost that smile and the attitude to fight back the worst by being prepared for it.
Today..I promised myself..
I won’t crib anymore..I won’t let my smile fade with the complexities of life..I will stop expecting from life because everything will happen for best…I will smile all hearts and clear the life’s toughest exam..for sure..
Tuesday, September 21, 2010
Someone next to God!
It was just some random usual discussion with someone elder to me in every sense...Whatever that person spoke, makes so perfect sense. Here it goes -
"In your age, you will be always confused about what Love is and will attach all sorts of why's, how's to it. As far as I know it, it is something which teaches you to bow or surrender yourself and your ego for that special someone in your life. You will want to agree with someone on even the most insane things possible in this world. And that is when you know you are in Love..That is when you know you have achieved someone next to your parents..someone next to God...because we human beings bow only before them. In short, you will experience another form of worship by bowing to the greatest will of God - which actually is Love in disguise."
Phew! Some real words of enlightenment for my soul or for anybody else who needs it. Really, this knowledge can only come by experience and I'm glad to meet such people who do help me in shaping up what I believe in.
"In your age, you will be always confused about what Love is and will attach all sorts of why's, how's to it. As far as I know it, it is something which teaches you to bow or surrender yourself and your ego for that special someone in your life. You will want to agree with someone on even the most insane things possible in this world. And that is when you know you are in Love..That is when you know you have achieved someone next to your parents..someone next to God...because we human beings bow only before them. In short, you will experience another form of worship by bowing to the greatest will of God - which actually is Love in disguise."
Phew! Some real words of enlightenment for my soul or for anybody else who needs it. Really, this knowledge can only come by experience and I'm glad to meet such people who do help me in shaping up what I believe in.
Wednesday, September 15, 2010
Gana ae ya na ae..Gana chaiye..wo bhi dil se!
I have been listening to some odd varieties of many-a-songs these days, some from good albums, some suggested by friends and some making a direct connection with the heart.
It’s strange how soulful songs have an immediate effect on the ‘chemical locha’ in your brain and can have a solid impact on the feelings of your heart. I was just wondering how..
You just catch a glimpse of someone and you feel that you have known him/her forever. In the background, some beautiful melodious instrumental will start playing and your feelings take a home-run. That’s what I assume to be the perfect definition of love at first sight. When you are in love, even the slightest of romantic music gives you a kick. You hear the name of that person in every beautiful song. You will even end up bothering people around by playing the same songs over and over again but that one person never seems to understand. Really sad!
Some examples I can relate to:
Kaun hai wo ladki..rehti hai wo kaha..
Is deewane ladke ko koi samjae..
Kuch to hua hai..Kuch ho gaya hai..
When breakups happen, you will actually hear a crashing sound. Such cases you will revert to the saddest possible gazals and relate to them for all good reasons. :D
Some hilarious ones:
Deewaro se milkar rona acha lagta hai…hum bhi pagal ho jaenge aisa lagta hai..
Chupke chupke raat din ansu bahana yad hai…
When you are unable to express guilt or ask for forgiveness from someone when he/ she is not ready to listen, you start talking to yourself with the song lyrics as a medium. You will try to bug that person also by cajoling him/her to listen to the song. It's your luck then if the other person really understands what you have been trying to convey so indirectly.
Don’t even remember when these songs were released..:
Humse ka bhool hui jo ye saza humka mili…
Daddi amma daddi amma maan jao…(pretty old ..hmmhh..)
Actually I think there is a better way of using songs in any given situation:
Just sit in front of GOD and play some bhajan or whatever song you will want the others to listen. Maybe God will understand your feelings and do something about or he might enjoy the song as well. (What say bhagwanji?? :) )
It’s strange how soulful songs have an immediate effect on the ‘chemical locha’ in your brain and can have a solid impact on the feelings of your heart. I was just wondering how..
You just catch a glimpse of someone and you feel that you have known him/her forever. In the background, some beautiful melodious instrumental will start playing and your feelings take a home-run. That’s what I assume to be the perfect definition of love at first sight. When you are in love, even the slightest of romantic music gives you a kick. You hear the name of that person in every beautiful song. You will even end up bothering people around by playing the same songs over and over again but that one person never seems to understand. Really sad!
Some examples I can relate to:
Kaun hai wo ladki..rehti hai wo kaha..
Is deewane ladke ko koi samjae..
Kuch to hua hai..Kuch ho gaya hai..
When breakups happen, you will actually hear a crashing sound. Such cases you will revert to the saddest possible gazals and relate to them for all good reasons. :D
Some hilarious ones:
Deewaro se milkar rona acha lagta hai…hum bhi pagal ho jaenge aisa lagta hai..
Chupke chupke raat din ansu bahana yad hai…
When you are unable to express guilt or ask for forgiveness from someone when he/ she is not ready to listen, you start talking to yourself with the song lyrics as a medium. You will try to bug that person also by cajoling him/her to listen to the song. It's your luck then if the other person really understands what you have been trying to convey so indirectly.
Don’t even remember when these songs were released..:
Humse ka bhool hui jo ye saza humka mili…
Daddi amma daddi amma maan jao…(pretty old ..hmmhh..)
Actually I think there is a better way of using songs in any given situation:
Just sit in front of GOD and play some bhajan or whatever song you will want the others to listen. Maybe God will understand your feelings and do something about or he might enjoy the song as well. (What say bhagwanji?? :) )
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