Sometimes you wish that your deepest secrets be buried real deep, in the depths of your heart..because you know that you can never explain or reason them out to others. You know that it will give you and your loved ones less pain if you just shut yourself up. This is what I call one kind of selfishness where you want to save others from your burden, by hiding things. You just want to see them happy with the smallest of lies.
But then your guilt feeling drives you to tell them the hidden truths which in my opinion is another variety of selfishness. This way you end up relieving yourself but you forget that others will have to bear that burden now.
So, what should you do??
The first option is a safe option where you know that the only person getting hurt is you. Others may get hurt for now but it better to save them from the worst.
The second is an option where everyone is bound to get hurt but with a relief factor, that you are free of all burdens in your heart.
At every point of your life, you will have to choose one of the above even if you are not very sure..Well only time will decide that for you.
For now...I'm just sure of one fact and living it through-
"Some things are best left unsaid.."
Very true... somethings are best left UnSaid....
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Kiran - U r always there to acknowledge d fact :P
ReplyDeleteseems to diff to knw ppl as colleagues and as frns :)
Great Topic..Well it depends what could be the impact..I believe it is always better to be frank with some who holds/will hold special place in your life. May be secrets can be revealed once the relationship grows strong..or it will scare him/her BIG time :)
ReplyDeleteRohan - Wat if there are many such special ppl..n u knw that keeping ur secrets is best with them.....so its always better to keep mum.. ;)
ReplyDeletehe he..many such? Then yes its good to not speak about them then. But i was talking about the very special person which is always one :)
ReplyDeleteReason being..the inner guilt is worst and a big burden on your heart..very difficult to stay happy with that..Just my opinion..
ha ha..no such special person now..as I had already used the 2nd way..lolz
ReplyDeleteneways..this was not written for neone..just something came up in my mind..
nicely put :)
ReplyDeletelife is full of difficult, confusing circumstances..
rite mehak..n silence is d bets way out! ;)
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