Gana ae ya na ae..Gana chaiye..wo bhi dil se!

I have been listening to some odd varieties of many-a-songs these days, some from good albums, some suggested by friends and some making a direct connection with the heart.
It’s strange how soulful songs have an immediate effect on the ‘chemical locha’ in your brain and can have a solid impact on the feelings of your heart. I was just wondering how..

You just catch a glimpse of someone and you feel that you have known him/her forever. In the background, some beautiful melodious instrumental will start playing and your feelings take a home-run. That’s what I assume to be the perfect definition of love at first sight. When you are in love, even the slightest of romantic music gives you a kick. You hear the name of that person in every beautiful song. You will even end up bothering people around by playing the same songs over and over again but that one person never seems to understand. Really sad!
Some examples I can relate to:
Kaun hai wo ladki..rehti hai wo kaha..
Is deewane ladke ko koi samjae..
Kuch to hua hai..Kuch ho gaya hai..

When breakups happen, you will actually hear a crashing sound. Such cases you will revert to the saddest possible gazals and relate to them for all good reasons. :D
Some hilarious ones:
Deewaro se milkar rona acha lagta hai…hum bhi pagal ho jaenge aisa lagta hai..
Chupke chupke raat din ansu bahana yad hai…

When you are unable to express guilt or ask for forgiveness from someone when he/ she is not ready to listen, you start talking to yourself with the song lyrics as a medium. You will try to bug that person also by cajoling him/her to listen to the song. It's your luck then if the other person really understands what you have been trying to convey so indirectly.
Don’t even remember when these songs were released..:
Humse ka bhool hui jo ye saza humka mili…
Daddi amma daddi amma maan jao…(pretty old ..hmmhh..)

Actually I think there is a better way of using songs in any given situation:
Just sit in front of GOD and play some bhajan or whatever song you will want the others to listen. Maybe God will understand your feelings and do something about or he might enjoy the song as well. (What say bhagwanji?? :) )