Growing up was easy when we were kids.
You could bang someone's head and fight with your friend's if they didn't play with you. There was no time for attachments, no use of brain or heart and no creepy feeling of being left alone. I always found someone new and much more happening then. And then the games went on and on.
Years pass by and I'm busy saying goodbyes to my friends, hoping to meet them sometime some - place. Why do changes always have to be this way.
It is the worst kind of feeling when you that the people you like best will not be visibly there for you always. You will have to bear the heart aches, cut your attachment with them and leave them to get your life going.
This has happened with me so many times now and I'm still not used to it. I just wish that I could rush back to all those times, be there, hold on to them and have all the gala times back. Sigh!
just a way of life i suppose... people come and people go. goodbyes must be said even when all you want is for the person to stay by your side forever and ever...
ReplyDeleteYes Mehak..I so want all my frnd with me always...guess it nvr happens dat way.. :(
ReplyDeleteBidding goodbyes to friends is worst when moving to a new place with few or no friends..this is when we understand the importance of friends.
ReplyDeletebut it has a positive aspect to it as well, like you get to meet people who play more significant role in your life.
Friendship of early years is unmatched, it strengthens with growing distance and is forever.
guess it is so..Rohan..
ReplyDeleteit seems so much more impossible now a days to have such frns...budapa :D
goodbye is the best way in which life makes us experience the happiness of meeting once again :P
ReplyDeleteYeah..Difficult to find such friends now, the only wise thing could be treasure those handful of true friends..right..budapa :) :)
ReplyDeleteSid- the question is..y is gudbye..supposed to happen..i want to stay wid them all along!
ReplyDeleteRohan - yo! Cheers to dis feeling.. ;)
ya u r right.... wen u find urself amongst all the problems... u just think and ask god a question "why does it happen with me and first of all why me "..... But as i hv definitely learned 'one can always connect the dots looking backwards and there is a always a sense in madness... so wait till then ... everything will sort out :)
ReplyDeleteabhishek - yes..dey have to sort out..i just knw dis..just can't bear their burden for so long..coz den it will nvr b th same me..so..i need to get goin fast and learn nehow to deal wid it! or maybe...get used to it!
ReplyDeleteMeeting and departing is the way of life but Departing and Meeting again is the hope of life :)
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